Sipping coffee, eating dark chocolates and sharing laughs with a friend in a super cute café this morning my heart was overwhelmed with gratitude for the tribe I’ve attracted into my life these days… Unfortunately this wasn’t always the case.
In the past I’ve experienced friendships that have given me anxiety, stolen my energy and have even caused me depression. The Law of Attraction is all about energy and energy in contagious! When we surround ourselves with negative people they don’t contribute to our “life force energy.” Your “life energy” is precious and must be protected!
Here are a few tips on how you can use your vibe to attract a tribe of healthy, positive people that motivate and believe in you!
Sometimes it’s us that we need to work on and not our negative friendships. Before you go ditching all your friends make sure to take a look at your own attitude and helpfulness when it comes to your friendships. Constant drama, lies, broken plans and promises are all reasonable reasons to cut the cord but keep in mind that sometimes friends go through phases that aren’t entirely positive.
I’m sure you have found yourself in a place where you weren’t exuding energy, calmness or success. Remember the friends that were there for you and be mindful that sometimes being there for each other for the bad stuff can be the most fulfilling thing we do.
Find Your Tribe
To discover your “truth” simply gain more wisdom! Read books, try out a new hobby, enroll in a class, travel to a new place. There are endless ways to self-discovery! By gaining an abundance of knowledge you can discover more of what you like. Getting to know more about yourself will put you in places you love allowing you to meet like-minded people!
Protect Your Magic
Tap into your intuition when it comes to making decisions on strengthening relationships, releasing negative friendships and reviving those that have gone stale.
Ask yourself where all your energy is going. If you find you’re continuously depleted, you may have to consider letting go of some of the people in your daily life. Focus your energy on strengthening the relationships that increase your overall health, success and encourage you to live with enthusiasm.
When it comes to those friends that you’ve known forever but leave you in energetic debt it’s time for some “spring cleaning”.
Sometimes when we’re honest with ourselves we find ourselves keeping friends out of guilt and putting energy into people that don’t give back. Allow yourself to create space for new friendships to blossom.
If you feel in your heart it’s worth reviving reach out, be open, put out the energy you want to come back to you. A friend should bring out the best in you and it should be your intention to do the same in return!