Finding a soul mate is #1 for many people. Personally, I believe you have a lot of chances to do so.
Your soul mate might not necessarily just be one person. There’s a reincarnation based believe that I’ve always been fond of.
That belief is that when you die, your soul shatters and breaks into pieces.
Those pieces are randomly brought together with pieces of many other souls to form new souls and new people.
So when you meet someone that you so strongly click with or find that person who is so clearly your soul mate, you’re really finding pieces of your soul in them, and they’re finding pieces of their soul in you.
1. You Just Connect Without Trying
Maybe you met through a mutual friend. You might have run into each other at the park.
Maybe you were making eyes at each other at the bar.
Whatever the case, when you finally said hello, there was electricity. There was a deep and intense connection made through conversation and body language.
For some couples, this feeling fades over time but with your soul mate, it only grows more intense over time.
Enjoy this, because it’s not something everyone gets to have.
2. Your Level Of Communication Is Unmatched
Every long lasting relationship’s success can be attributed to the ability to communicate not just clearly but authentically.
This communication is real, nothing is hidden and there’s clearly no lying. There’s nothing to hide.
This leaves you open and vulnerable with your partner. It sometimes takes practice, but soul mates have this type of communication with one another.
It’s important for soul mates to voice their needs and know that communication comes in many different forms.
But good communication will lead to a higher connection.
3. You Create Your Own World Together
The strongest relationships with soul mates are the ones where they create together.
Sure, it can be fun to lay in bed and watch movies. Hanging out is great.
But if that’s all you do, where are you headed?
Soul mates find the things they have in common, and even some things they don’t, and jump in with both feet.
They share with one another the arts, sciences, and create together.
Sharing these passions pushes your passions for one another even further.
4. Things Are Just Kind Of Intense
Everything about your relationship seems intense.
What you do for fun, your ideas, your passions, your fights – everything has a certain fire behind it.
5. You Feel Like You’ve Known Them Forever
A soul mate is a person defined as someone who shares a piece of your soul, so chances are, you’ve actually known them in a past life.
So that extremely familiar feeling makes sense. You should know them. You have a part of each other in you both.
6. You Just Get Each Other
It’s not something I can especially easily describe here.
But there’s just something between you that clicks. You understand what they’re thinking and feeling.
7. You Love Even Their Imperfections
If you feel like you constantly need to change your partner for the better, it’s not exactly a good sign.
With a soul mate, you’ll find even their stranger quirks and imperfections endearing.
8. You Just Can’t Picture Life Without Them
Once you’ve met your soul mate, you just can’t see going on without them.
It’s impossible to picture what life would be like without them gracing your presence.
9. It’s Feels Like It’s You Two Against The Whole World
No matter what shit might go down, you have each others’ backs. You can ride out any storm together.
10. You Have A Telepathic Bond
Like ET and Elliot, you seem to know what they’re feeling, know what they’re about to say; you think about them and not long after they shoot you a call or a text message.
Find yourself, know yourself.
All else is futile and will not bring contentedness.